Love Marriage Divorce-some light from Jesus

I’m not yet divorced. As a Christian who believes in the integrity of Jesus and the biblical record, one cannot pick and choose what “red letters” we read. For those of you who may not understand that, many bibles have the words of Jesus in red. But those words stand upon the whole light of scripture, and Jesus came fulfilling all written in it.
I will have more to say about marriage and divorce in other posts to follow, but for now, I simply want to lead you to the words of another man, Shane Willard. I found this video after doing a Google search on the words adultery and murder. I had another idea in mind, which I am still contemplating, but what I heard from this man was so refreshing and right, full of our Saviors light and love, that there is nothing I need add.
If you, like me, understood from the scriptures that divorce is a death penalty to any further life of sexuality and remarriage, then you need to listen to this. There is no compromise, only light in his words. At the time of writing this, it has only been viewed 284 times, and I have contributed at least three of those.
Enjoy the freedom of the truth.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5T4TxPWtThg